Biscuitās Accidental Breakthrough š¾
20 August 2026
Well⦠we had a little breakthrough with Biscuit this morning.
And, as is often the way with frightened cats, it happened completely by accident.
Biscuit and Tabitha are currently enjoying their newfound freedom from their crates, and this morning I found Biscuit tucked up inside Tabithaās little cubby with her. He had absolutely no intention of coming out while I was in there ā and honestly, I wasn't about to push him.
So I did what I normally do with Tabitha. I sat beside them and started giving Tabby her morning pats.
Then came the accidental-on-purpose moment. š While patting Tabitha, I gently touched Biscuit.
And⦠nothing happened.
No hiss.
No growl.
No swat.
No attempt to launch himself through the nearest wall!
So I kept going.
First Tabitha, then Biscuit. I was able to gently stroke him under his chin, around his ears and over the top of his head. And then⦠he closed his eyes.
He still wasn't completely relaxed, his breathing told me that he was still tense, and he didn't purr. But he accepted the contact.
For a cat who has spent so much time believing that human hands are something to defend himself against, that is a BIG little milestone.
And I suspect Tabitha had a lot to do with it. Biscuit was tucked in with her, and she was providing him with that extra feeling of safety and confidence. He may not have had the option of simply walking away, but instead of reacting defensively, he chose to tolerate the contact.
Then came another lovely little moment.
Every morning, the cats get their creamy treats either before or after breakfast, depending on who needs a little encouragement to get their appetite going. Since Biscuit was snuggled in with Tabitha, I put a little treat on the end of my finger and offered it in without really being able to see what was happening. Tabitha had a lick as she usually does.
Then Biscuit came forwardā¦and licked it too.
Before I knew it, I was feeding both of them from my fingertip, with Biscuit happily licking the creamy treat straight off my finger alongside Tabitha. And that might sound like a tiny thing.
But with a frightened or previously defensive cat, these tiny things are the milestones.
The important thing about progress
Cats like Biscuit don't necessarily progress in a straight line.
A breakthrough doesn't mean āhe's cured now and I can pat him whenever I want.ā In fact, I won't be rushing out to try patting Biscuit when he's wandering around on his own.
What we've learned today is something much more valuable:
Biscuit is capable of accepting gentle human touch when he feels safe enough.
He can also approach a human hand for something positive, in this case, his beloved creamy treat, and choose to lick from the hand rather than seeing it as a threat.
Those are building blocks.
With frightened cats, trust is often built through hundreds of tiny moments:
.. Nothing bad happened.
...That hand didn't hurt me.
..I can walk away if I want to.
...That human brings treats.
...That human is gentle with Tabitha.
...Maybe I'm safe here.
And eventually, those little moments can become trust.
So for now, we're not going to push it. We'll let Biscuit decide when he's ready for the next step.
And later, when I looked through the window, guess where he was?
Still tucked up happily in the cubby with Tabitha.
Hello, Biscuit.
You're doing brilliantly, little man.
One tiny milestone at a time. š¾
Photo below I took but for clarity had the bars removed digitally so you can see their cuteness!!
